Let’s answer some question before moving further!
Do we need the belongings of a mate in order to live our lives happily?
Is it really possible to love someone soulfully without even loving yourself?
Can you make someone happy, when even you are not?
We never try to answer these questions, because it makes us little uneasy and uncomfortable. So, we tend to ignore such questions. In the different phases of life, we feel the need of other one to bring some happiness and make our world beautiful. In this search, we look for the best one but get adjusted with a compromising one too just for filling our empty lives. Soon after exploiting other’s joys of being single and self-delight, we again started feeling lone and get separated. Even, we spend the life with such mate, which is a far more dangerous form of belongings of two lone partners. They eat each other’s delight and kill each other every day, every hour and every second, and blame the love for ultimate destruction of their lives.
When two watery glasses came in physical connection, the water splashes out and becomes one. But when two less watery glasses came in physical touch, they develop a harsh sound of crash and get empty. The same happens in love, when you are self-delighted and enjoy your own existence at the fullest, you become able to pour soulful love in lives of the people around you. In this situation, you feel delight in being alone and wishes to find another self-delighted alone soul to bring something good after collaborating your lives. So at first, you need to deal with your own loneliness to pass through an incarnation of loneliness to aloneness. As per the dictionary version, loneliness is synonymous to aloneness. Contradictory to this, both words have their different meanings. Loneliness is a negative state of mind but Aloneness is positive. In loneliness, you constantly miss the one. But in aloneness, you feel self-composed, self-delighted, celebrated after achieving desired soul goals. While being lone, we need something at all times to fill our empty lives like alcohol beverages or some hi-tech social networking sites. But, while being alone, you tend the people around you to dream and taking risk in realizing their dreams. Loneliness inclines you to come in center of the society and tends you to do some controversial things like posting nude pictures on social networking sites to gain quick publicity. In aloneness, you don’t starve for facing camera even shooting the others for many years. Lone people gather a large amount of money and spends their lives around sophisticated corporate cubicals, but alone people prefer to experience the nature and works to fill life in their lives.
So fulfill your own dreams, and pass through the incarnation of loneliness to aloneness. At first, let’s fulfill our own dreams and fill our empty glasses to splash the watery love when the next time you came in touch with another alone soul.